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Flirting Tips

  • Reflecting. Bring out your secret flirting weapon: 'Reflecting'. It's easy.  Simply copy his movements. If he moves forward to speak to you, then you should move forward as well.  If he leans against the wall, you lean against the wall also. Make sure you are subtle. 'Reflecting' works well, because subconsciously we all like people to copy how we behave.

  • Dress to impress. Dress to accentuate your best bits, rather than always wearing the latest fashions. Choose a style that flatters your figure and a colour that suits your skin, eyes and hair. If you look great, you'll feel great and self-confidence is magnetic.

  • Cleavage. Just VERY gently touch the top of your cleavage line, while maintaining eye contact with the guy you like. 
     
  • Touching. A slight touch or rub of your hand on a guy's arm or his leg while talking to him will definitely let him know that you are interested in him.  It also gives you a chance to see if he's got muscles - hee hee.
     
  • Whispering. If the room is loud, take advantage of it.  Lean in close and whisper your conversation into his ear.
     
  • Confidence.  A good flirt is self-confident, enthusiastic and positive and not afraid to take risks.
     
  • Have fun.  Be spontaneous, cheerful and light hearted.
     
  • Smile. Your smile is how you signal your friendliness. Your smile says “I’m having fun and happy to be with you”. Keep your smile warm and natural.
     
  • Eye Contact. Let the guy you’re flirting with know you are interested by catching his eye and holding his gaze for a few seconds. Combine this with your cutest smile. Perhaps look away for the briefest moment and then re-engage him with your eyes.
     
  • Lips. Don’t ever underestimate the power of a bright red lipstick and a super shiny lip gloss. Just remember that red is the colour of sex and fertility. While flirting, just the most subtle lick of your lips is extremely alluring.
     
  • Neck and Shoulders. One of the best flirting techniques is the exposure of a woman’s neck and shoulders. Use a sexy backwards glance over your shoulder to emphasise your interest.
     
  • Accentuate your femininity. The most alluring and fascinating signals to a man are little feminine subtleties. A flick of your hair, stroking your neck, or checking your lipstick will all hold the attention of the guy you have chosen.
     
  • Legs, feet and high heels. High heeled shoes define your calves and ankles making them look slim and seductive. Crossing and uncrossing your legs and dangling your shoe, sends a sexual message and sets any man’s pulse pounding.
     
  • Chatting. When your guy approaches, keep in mind that he may be a little nervous. Laugh if he makes a joke, focus on him and ask him about hobbies, friends, job etc. Don’t leave all the work to him. Try not to talk too much about yourself.

Above all – Flirting is all about having fun.

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